Ready to learn something that might blow your mind...what you perceive is NOT reality! This is a hard pill to swallow for some people. Just know that none of our perceptions is reality.
What is the definition of perception, well, its the ability to see, hear, or become aware of something through the senses. The state of being or process of becoming aware of something through the sense, a way of regarding, understanding, or interpreting something; a mental impression.
So with that being said, we all have different mental impressions. We all have different ways our senses pick things up. We are all individual people. So if all that is correct, it only makes sense that we ALL perceive things 100% differently.
None of us sees life the way it actually is. We see it the way we are. The way we think. Now that is a huge thing to understand. If we see life how we are, and not how it truly is, then of course everyone's view on life will be different. This also means that how others see us is completely different from each person to the next, and is most definitely different then how we see ourselves. We literally have zero control on how others see us. Understanding this is LIFE CHANGING!!! Why? because when we understand that we can not control how others see us, then we stop being obsessed with pleasing everyone. We stop being concerned with making life move based on other peoples thoughts of us. Could you truly imagine if you started making moves based on YOU. based on what you truly want and need, and stopped making them based on others. How different your life would be. How FREE you would feel. You would literately make every decision based on YOU and what YOU want!!
Perception is a choice! We choose to perceive things in the ways we do. We also choose to live our lives based on what we THINK other people are thinking and feeling.
Have you ever felt like you were doing everything right, and that everyone else thought you were wrong? Did you ever take the time to sit and ask them, open up a conversation, or did you just assume, and then turn your positive light into negative, based on that assumption? I feel a lot of us do this daily, because again, we are so concerned about others thoughts, and way less about our own.
We all have a story, we all have a purpose, but when we are living in our story, and not in our energy, we move forward on the decisions of how we want our story to be seen by others. This in return is draining, this has less impact on you moving forward. Living in your energy and not being concerned with that thoughts of others, becomes a movement to break free from the chains of society. From the chains that keep you locked in a relationship you hate, a job you dislike going into everyday. It breaks the chain of you truly living your complete self.
Once you realize that you can stop hiding behind your own assumptions, and that no matter what, you can not control what others think, see, and feel. You start to live your life completely full of what is best for you. And that my friends is where the life change begins.
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